Some throw themselves into mindless sex, others hole themselves away from the world. but trying to force yourself not to feel only makes things worse. You just got your heart ripped out and a relationship has come to an end. Trying to hide from the reality of the break-up only prolongs the pain because ultimately you’re trying to pretend that it didn’t happen. Feel it, mourn what was lost and you’ll reach the other side – acceptance – that much faster.There’s a part of you that, irrationally, hopes that if you can just make the pain go away, then the triggering event will have never occurred and you’ll magically go back to being the person you were that morning/yesterday/last week/whatever. All that numbing yourself is doing is ensuring that you’re going to tear the bandage off painful in the long-run. Another common mistake is to try to repress that come with a breakup in a mistaken desire to “be a grown-up” or “be mature” about it.Or, like Jennifer, you might be choosing to stay single for now (or forever).There are no rules that say you have to wait a certain period of time after a breakup before you can date again.You can see why it is hard to understand why a guy like Arashi would go after her, but he did.Riding the Emotional Roller Coaster Strengthening Your Self-Worth Becoming a Better You Community Q&A It's one of the worst emotional pains a human being can experience. You were each others' best friends, you could tell him anything, and you maybe even thought he was the "one". Learn how to effectively cope with getting dumped and pull your life back together in the aftermath.It is the story that you have heard before, but with cute art and a lot of excitement thrown in.Being a visual novel, you are going to be able to go through the story with your own path.
Michi is not the type of girl who gets the guys and all the attention, at least all of the good attention.Besides her best friend, Kisa, she does not have a lot going for her.She is not terribly attractive or intelligent, and there is nothing about her that makes her popular.The solution: Once you have a solid foundation (you love your life, love yourself and feel completely fulfilled), you would do best to start meeting and dating new men. Either your ex will swoop in and do everything he can to win you back… he won’t and you will end up with a new guy whose a better match for you. And be sure to take our super accurate quiz: “Can I Get my Ex Back Or Is he Gone Forever? You play as Michi, an unpopular, unattractive, unintelligent girl who is freshly dumped by the most popular, attractive, and intelligent guy at school, Arashi.