The good news for women out there is that the supposed ideal weight you’re aiming for might be significantly lower than what a man would consider ideal.
There was a study I read in college about body weight and attractiveness in women.
The only problem with this hypothesis is that your ex waited months to contact you. Maybe if you totally devastated him in the breakup, he only felt secure enough to talk to you again once he found someone else – but I would wager he’s probably reaching out with ulterior motives.
Most likely, he’s not happy in his current relationship and is testing the waters with you out of boredom.
The persistent belief is that women are looking for long-term committed relationship and men are looking for short-term sexual relationships.
That may be true for younger people, but that isn’t always the case at this age, she says.
I have some super skinny friends who are considered really hot and always get hit on and then there are celebs who are super skinny, like Olivia Wilde and Megan Fox (she supposedly has a 23 inch waist!
), that are considered these huge sex symbols and are number 1 on every ‘hot list.’ Oh boy… I knew that sooner or later this question would come up and I would have to answer it.
And, like everything else, I will answer it honestly without sugar-coating.
To start things off, I can tell you that one of the things that guys will talk about is who we think is a hot chick.
I can also tell you that men have a wide range of what they consider to be an ideal weight and their “type” of woman.