Question: Our breakup was not bitter at all, instead it was full of emotions from both of us.She said that she still cared for me but was not in love like she used to be. The second a little longer and the third was 3 hours long.To cut the long story short, we texted a few times and settled on dinner this Friday.I’m both excited and nervous as this is the first time I’m meeting her face to face after almost two months. I want her back and I don’t want to make any mistakes.
I talk about the different strategies, tactics and methods that you can employ to help your ex find his way back into your loving arms.
Besides the usual advice on any first date with anyone — look your best but not overdone, arrive early, take a seat facing the entrance (if possible), compliment how she looks, and be on your best behaviour, here are a few more tips on how to make a first date with an ex not just great but effective. Go with no expectations So far things look really good but that does not necessarily mean she’s ready to get back with you.
This is definitely not the right time to bring up getting back together or define the relationship.
Admittedly we both had faults when we were boyfriend / girlfriend. We both agree what went wrong and dating this time around has been great.
The catch though is I don't know how long I should stay in this holding pattern until he is ready to commit again.